Our Princess Amanda

On 10/21/05; our princess fell and struck her head. She was rushed to a local hospital and it was discovered that her skull was fractured. She was immediately transferred to ICU and has been under round the clock care ever since. Family and friends are with her constantly. We are doing are best to return phone calls and keep everyone informed of her progress, however, it can be a challenge. Please feel free to check back often and leave comments.

Monday, January 09, 2006

January 9, 2006 - Mid-Morning


Sunday was a much better day for Amanda's tummy. She was able to eat all of her breakfast and most of her lunch. She was a still a little sick, but much better on the whole. She even felt well enough to make the marathon of all her walks to date. At Kurt's suggestion, she agreed to walk to the dining hall (a fairly short walk out of the room, around the corner and across the hall). However, she paused at the elevator on the way, ignoring the up elevator, and got on the down elevator. She then navigated her way to the basement and began going through the tunnel. At some point, Kurt realized that Mandy had decided that the "dining room" she wanted to go to was the cafeteria across the street at the hospital that Kurt and Brenda had taken her to a handful of times in the prior week! (We wonder if she had Starbucks on her mind?) She made it down an extremely steep ramp and half way up the other before she tired and needed to sit in the wheelchair. This was her longest walk yet. She's using the walker with a lot of proficiency now and only needs a minimum of assistance balancing. She's quite the woman.

The stress fracture on her vertebrae is no longer visible on the x-rays. We hope that means that she no longer has to use the back brace that she seems to find so annoying. We've got a question into the staff about it. Kurt has also selected her "group" house. The plan is for her to go to CNS (Central Nervous System) in Irving. [They have a very extensive website. If you google CNS Dallas, it will come right up.] After visiting a few places, TAnn, Joyce and Kurt were all 100% in agreement that CNS was the right place for Amanda in terms of a program specifically tailored to her that encouraged family involvement and her physical safety. [And of course, by now, everyone should know that when we're talking about Kurt and Amanda, family means the family we choose as well as the family we're fortunate enough to be born into - everyone that has spent time caring for her or sending her their love and prayers can consider themselves family!] The official date of move is still next week; however, the "transition" session has not yet been scheduled so we're not sure if we're still on track or if it's going to be delayed another week or so. We'll keep everyone posted as to the planned date and whatever the new "visit" program will be when we get closer to that date.

13 Comments:

  • At 11:12 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,
    Sounds like you are getting around good. Keep it up. Jerry & I think about you every day and lots of friends & coworkers here in Savannah ask about you and pray for your recovery, even though they have never met you. You are a star.
    Love, Diane & Jerry

     
  • At 12:04 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Wow, awesome news, Mandy. You're progressing so quickly. Mike and I are so proud of you. You knew which "dining room" you wanted to go to, didn't you? Hope you get the back brace off soon, as I'm sure it's not very comfortable. Mike and I think about you daily and can't wait until you can be at home with Kurt and your babies!

    Love, Leslie & Mike

     
  • At 12:25 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,
    I know we are not close but I just want to let you know how proud I am of you and how hard you are working every day. Stay strong!!
    Love,
    Gené

     
  • At 2:19 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Princess Amanda,

    Great news. That is awesome that you walked so far. Sorry we didn't get to come see you this weekend. We will try to come soon. Keep up the good work.

    Love,

    Sasha, Mila and Paul

     
  • At 2:29 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,
    Awesome news!!! Keep it up!! I hope you are having a great day!!

    April H.

     
  • At 2:31 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Well Cousin,
    You going in leaps and bounds!
    I am happy for you. We think of you often and you are in our prayers.
    So keep trying and rest when you need it too, you know, thats ok too!
    We love you Princess and Ron and Kurt and all the people who are helping so much We love you too!
    Love Paul and all the Rex's

     
  • At 3:38 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Well, it just goes to show...you can't keep a gal in monkey cheerleader pants down.
    :) Teresa

     
  • At 3:52 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy - I just heard your song. And I WOULD buy you a mon-kee! (And I bet Kurt will let you have one now if you still want one...) I'll be back to see you soon, keep workin' hard baby girl. - B.

     
  • At 4:55 PM, Blogger StaticNomad said…

    It seems you are on the right road with full recovery! I think that's beyond awesome. I am even more impressed to hear about the marathon walk. Wish I could have been there! I'm glad to hear that you are feeling a bit better. I know those stomach bugs can really hender a positive progression in healing. My entire family came down with something over the Christmas holidays. Poor james, my husband, was so sick on Christmas day - he didn't get to do or eat anything. My youngest son was very ill Christmas Eve and then suddenly become well on Christmas day. I never caught it, but I think either I've already had it or maybe because my system is always on the guard I just never could get it. Who knows. But anyhow, I can imagine it was not easy to deal with on top of everything els eyou are trying to manage. Hopefully by tomorrow you will be back on full track. I'm really even more sorry to know you never got to do the weekend pass thing. Well, maybe next weekend will prove different for you. I hope to check in tomorrow for continued good news! Oh -- by the way.. I love the kitty cat! And I'm crossing my fingers for the back brace to be removed very soon!

     
  • At 6:15 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,

    Kaos, the feline princess, enjoys the fame of being posted on your blog and says she looks forward to laying around your neck in the near future to lick your face some more...
    Can't wait to see the hair.
    Aloha nui loa, Donna

     
  • At 9:16 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hey Mandy!
    Thank you for making my day today! You talking to ME, stating my name to get my attention was the best start to this day!

    To my fellow blogaholics, today was an awesome day! Like I said, starting with Amanda speaking directly to me...WOW!!! I have a permanent smile now:)

    She did everything that was asked of her in all therapy sessions, including walking 3 separate times for therapy, she did the arm cycle longer than requested, answered questions for Cabell (her speech therapist), completed math problems & so on!

    Her new nurse, Amanda, is super sweet & I personally approve of her:)

    Terri brought her another monkey today which gave her plenty to focus on for the rest of the day. The new monkey groomed all the other stuffed animals, gave out kisses & hugs & best of all, kept her hands occupied so they weren't going near her eye:) Good job little monkey!

    So after all therapy was over, I was helping her get from wheelchair to bed for a nap, as requested. She had her arms around my neck, mine around her waist & she decided not to sit on the bed. Yvonne suggested music & turned it on for us. We swayed in a dancing motion for about 15 minutes before she laid down. It was fun just smiling & talking like that for a while. Okay, I know I'm sappy, but it was a very nice moment!

    Kurt arrived & was followed by a very special visitor named Kevin (not Kurt's brother). He is an ex-patient of Baylor who had a bad car accident in 1997, where he sustained a severe brain injury. He was a Dallas police officer, 35 years old, with an infant daughter & wife. He was taken to Baylor Hospital where he was in a coma for 2 months & then transfered to Bayor Rehab, where Mandy is now, for 1 month. He even had Dr. Carlisle, Mandy's doctor. He was told back then that he would never talk or walk & we was visiting to show us that he is doing both! He wasn't insulting the doctors, but reminding us that they don't perform miracles, God does. I think we all know that! Mandy was sleeping during this story. Then Kevin asked if he could lead us in a prayer, so he, Kurt, & I held hands while Kevin prayed out loud for Amanda to do her best, not get in any record book, just do her best & he prayed for us to all continue to have patience with her & so on. In the middle of the prayer, Amanda woke up & stuck her hand out to join in, so Kurt & I were holding her hand & the prayer circle was complete. It was a moving, awesome prayer that brought tears (duh) for me & also reminded me of how special we all are to have Amanda in our lives. She has & still is teaching us all so much about what is/is not important in life. God bless you all for praying for, caring for, thinking about Amanda.

    It's uncomfortable for me when someone thanks me for what I do for her because I don't see it as "doing" anything. I am more than happy to be there for her & for Kurt whenever possible. BUT, I thank you all so much for all that you do to help in this situation, no matter how small your deed may seem, it means so much.

    They say it takes a whole village to raise a child. Well I say it takes a whole world to heal a brain injury! We have it covered!

    Good night! Sorry to be so lengthy!
    Christine

     
  • At 12:31 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy & Kurt,

    Glad you are back in Dallas, and even happier that Mandy sounds as if she is progressing leaps and bounds. Hang in there troopers! We're all pulling for you guys. You are in my thoughts!

    Ashlee

     
  • At 3:30 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    CNS is a great place and Kelly Murray is an excellent speech pathologist and a wonderful and kind-hearted person! Amanda will be in good hands there.

     

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