January 1, 2006 - Mid-Morning

The first day of 2006! May all of our wishes and hopes be brought to fruition in the new year. (Should we call it the Year of Amanda?) We discuss the date with her first thing every morning. She doesn't generally have a sense of time, but she did say "Wow" when we told her it was officially 2006 and the first day of the new year.
She continues to progress forward. Because yesterday was a Saturday, she only had physical therapy. We went to the 2nd floor and she walked the entire length of the building (twice) with her walker (with breaks of course - she danced and sang with Brenda in her standing breaks. She hooked her fingers into Brenda's jean pockets and belt loops just like we all used to do at high school dances.) We sing to her as we walk as well and that seems to help motivate her. Her attention span also appears to be increasing. She spent at least 30 minutes looking and re-looking at the scrapbook of her first solo trip with Brenda. She pauses to read some of the words out loud (although we're not sure if she's comprehending the words she's saying). Teresa and Lauri visited with her yesterday and brought her a "Bad Cat" book (pictures of cats with captions). She looked through the entire book (spending about 20 minutes). As well, we were able to "play" cards. Taking turns with Brenda, she was successfully able to sort half of the deck into the correct suit - only missing one card! She spent about 20 minutes in the kitchen looking at the items in the drawers, getting tea (making faces about having Lipton hot tea) and having a generally good time. In the afternoon, she had her nails painted and she was able to pay attention and even assist by holding her hands in the air without asking and blowing on her nails to help them dry. Her attention span is much shorter when it comes to conversation and much of her conversation is still contextually misplaced and/or difficult to understand, but we're happy to see it expanding for activities. Although, with increased mobility comes increased responsibility on the part of everyone around her. She's very "impulsive" right now and and has little sense of her own safety. She'll take her hands of her walker and attempt to walk away from it, she'll grab items/jars to open and may try to taste, drink or eat things that might harm her, or the most frequent is that she'll try and stand from her wheelchair without proper support. Oh and, she's really, really fast when she decides to take an "impulsive" action. You have to be really alert to her every movement.
The best funny story from the yesterday has to involve OT. We took her for a roll out and about the building. It was pretty empty so there weren't a lot of people around for her to watch. She was great rolling through the PT room and seemed to enjoy watching the 1-2 people that were there working on their exercises. But as we turned the corner to roll through the COMPLETELY EMPTY OT room, she leaned back in her chair, pursed her lips, crossed her arms and gave us the evil eye. No matter how much we reassured her that we were just passing through and not there to do any OT work, she refused to respond to us until we got her out of there. We're going to have to talk to her rehab folks and see if we can get them to give her her OT therapy in another room since she has developed what appears to be a pure hatred for that room. LOL
Coming up this week, we're looking forward to the plans to get her into the pool to help work on her balance. As well, LaDonna is scheduled to make her Cyndi Lauper hair do a bit more up to date and we know the princess will appreciate looking pretty again. (When Brenda flipped open her laptop yesterday Mandy was able to see her reflection in the screen while the computer warmed up. She gazed at her self and said,"My hair is sooo short.") We'd like to thank everyone that continues to visit. We know that seeing familiar faces helps her in the healing process. And for those of you who haven't been able to visit yet or haven't visited as much as you like, don't feel bad. We know it's the holidays and a been a tough time to visit. We know everyone is thinking about her. Feel free to schedule time as you are able.
For a housekeeping item, does anyone have her Scotland scrapbook? We bring her in her scrapbooks to help her reconnect the dots. But we haven't been able to find the Scotland one and thought maybe someone might have borrowed it? If you have it, please contact Kurt.

9 Comments:
At 12:21 PM,
Anonymous said…
Wow, I continue to be amazed at her progress. I pray eahc night for Amanda, but also her family and friends to have the strength to keep up the amazing work. (really not work when you love someone as much as you all love her)
Happy New Year Amanda!!
Jude from the shack
At 2:13 PM,
Anonymous said…
Happy New Year Mouse.
You are doing great to keep walking and connecting all that has gone on. I pray you will accept the work of the OT exercises. I know they are silly and seem like activities that only little children whould be doing but they do work in rebuilding our thinking processes.
Keep up the good work and you will be home in no time.
Kurt hang in there it has been a long slow recovery for you too. I pray you will soon have the love of your life back irritating the cats and redecorating the house.
See you all soon.
Happy New Year.
Love,
Pastor Deborah
At 2:34 PM,
Anonymous said…
Hi Kurt & Mandy! Happy new year! We hung out with Kelly & Judy last night at their house. I'm guessing for the last 6-7 years I've kissed & hugged at least one Bethke at midnight so I missed that last night.
This year we do have so much to be thankful for & so much to look forward to. Yes, I would agree it is the "Year of Amanda"...she gets anything she wants:)
I love you both. Looking forward to a great year!
Christine
At 7:27 PM,
Anonymous said…
Amanda, it was really great to see you today and to be able to talk with you a little bit. I hope it helps you to see familiar faces, even though they may not all seem familiar to you just yet. Today you helped me get my new year off to a good start. I am so happy that you are getting better each day. I can't believe how much difference just one week makes in your recovery. You have a lot of inner strength and I only hope I could have a fraction as much as you've shown us you have. I hope you like the monkey I brought you today - he's a funny monkey and I hope he'll give you some more sweet monkey kisses!!
Amanda told me today that she would rather be rafting! Kurt said that they had talked about taking a rafting trip at some point, so after she told me she would rather be rafting, she wanted to write it down so she wouldn't forget. It was awesome that she thought it through to want to write down something she wants to do later! I would have loved to stay longer and continue to be in awe of her progress - I am amazed at how far she's come and excited to see where she'll be this time next week. She has her brain in high gear. She was telling me something about the stuffed monkey and decided to sing what she was saying - it threw me off a little b/c I was trying to hear it as a song that I thought I would have recognized, but then Kurt told me that he thinks it may be easier in her mind to sing things. She was humming a lot today too.
Amanda, it was good for the soul to see you today - thank you for working so hard to get better!!
Brenda, it was so great to meet you and to be able to tell you in person how much we appreciate your updates. You have been honest and forthright in your updates, even when I know it must have been diffiuclt to put the words in print. I look forward to seeing you again at the "Big A" party!!
Kurt, Happy New Year to you - you've been a trooper and it was great to see you today too. Hang in there and let me know if there is anything I can do to help you!!
Much love,
Lj
At 8:59 PM,
StaticNomad said…
Happy New Year to Kurt and Amanda!
Well, I've been reading every update since October and I have to say, I've still never met anyone, especially Amanda, but I feel like I know you all.
My husband works with Kurt, and I ask him often how Kurt is doing, because I know it must be hard for him to play out the wait. It's very emtoional, I'm sure. I know my husband would do it for me too, as would anyone who loves thier spouse just so much. I put a lot of thought and prayer into Amanda and Kurt pulling through this together. I'm so glad to see God showing His mercy and love to us all. Especially during times that are so hard, and sometimes downright depressing in this world.
Amanda - I'm excited to see that you are reading the blog comments now. Because I have something I really want to say to you. I admire you for being who you are. You seem like a person who has seen much in the world, much beauty of the world and splendor. You've experienced what I can only dream of seeing one day. I was sad to think you'd forget such wonderful things. I'm so --- entirely happy to know you are slowly regaining these awesome memories. One day, it will all come together for you hun.
I'm sorry we've never come to visit. But considering I'm the wife of the man who is merely an occupational aquaintance of your husband, I felt it to be much too personal for us to come see you, but rather just write to you and send our love and encouragement. You seem to have plenty of the love though surrounding you.
I know it doesn't FEEL this way, but you are one blessed, lucky, and inspirational woman. If you don't know it yet, I pray one day you will.
A new year is a time for new things - and I believe you have not just your old life, but new friends to accomidate them along with an entirely new experience called the gift of life and the miracle of living it. So I sincerely wish you the best year you could ever have this 2006. I, too, will be living the best 2006 and I can possibly have. Complete with a new outlook on life, thanks to you. ;o) Thank you. I know you probably don't understand why I say thank you, but I do.
At 9:19 PM,
Anonymous said…
Happy New Year birthday buddy! As so many others have said already, you ARE an inspiration to us all. You are making fantastic strides. You go girl!
I've been a silent supporter of yours through your many long months back to recovery, and I will be here in the background continuing to cheer you, and Kurt, on. You are a blessed woman to have such a devoted husband and the support of so many friends. May God continue His blessings in this New Year.
Pat Thompson
(Christine's neighbor)
At 10:19 PM,
Anonymous said…
Mandy & Kurt,
Happy New Year.
Just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you and continue to pray for you each and every day.
God Bless,
Yvonne
At 11:31 PM,
StaticNomad said…
P.S. I finally updated my blog profile. I realize some people have been clicking with curiosity. LOL! Maybe I should just fill in the blanks? So I did... =oD
At 1:03 PM,
Anonymous said…
Hi Amanda,
Happy New Year, I know 2006 has great things in store for you. So happy to see how well you are doing! Keep up the good work.
Travel from the laugh shack....:)
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