February 24, 2006 - Early Morning
Mandy continues to remind us of the little engine that could. We had the meeting with CNS yesterday and what was scheduled to take about an hour and a half took over 2! We had a list of questions going in and we made sure that we went over all of them with her team. The quick outcome of the meeting is that she is still on track for a normal release time from CNS to an outpatient program in 3-4 months. (Since she went in at the end of January, that would put her release time around May). Of course, that's subject to her status and progress as we get closer. This was the baseline meeting where the team established what her current deficits are and what the plan is to help her overcome them. The 2 biggest problem areas continue to be the cognitive deficits and the "pain" she is perceiving in her left foot. [And yes, we hate the word "deficits" too. But that is the accurate medical term and an accurate description for right now.] The "pain" in her foot really slows down her progress overall and affects all of her treatments. We're happy to report that her physical therapists are being proactive and thinking outside of the box in looking for ways to help her get over this hurdle (having her put lotion on her foot, having her put a weight on the ankle as she's walking to force her to use it and get used to the pressure). Although we'll meet with CNS on a monthly basis to discuss status, she is still improving on a weekly basis which is exactly what we'd like to see. (She had already made some of last week's reports obsolete).
Of course, she continues to be cute as all get out. She goes on weekly field trips to the grocery store, restaurants (Boston Market this week) and the movies. She's even humming to herself again. When Kurt stopped by earlier this week for the morning visit to get her day started, she looked up at him from her bed and without prompting and told him that "I feel good". That's exactly what we want to hear.
Although we would have also liked to have had CNS tell us in the meeting yesterday what functions we can expect Mandy to recover, it's not really possible with a brian injury. No one can hazard a guess at this point as to what point she'll ultimately heal to. The general rule of thumb is that you must get to 12 months post trauma before you can make those kinds of assessments. In the meantime, we just give as much therapy as she can handle and surround her with love and encouragement.
P.S. For anyone that would like to learn more about Brain Injury, we've found a website that we think is a pretty good one. [March is brain injury awareness month!] It is the Brain Injury Association of America (http://www.biausa.org/Pages/home.html) and is chock full of information about brain injuries. One of the items that we particularly enjoyed was some of the poetry written by individuals with TBI (years after the trauma) about their experiences and what they were feeling. It's hard right now for Mandy to express everything that's going on inside her because of the speech challenges and the poetry gives us insight into the types of things that may be going on in her head during those times when she isn't able to share it with us herself.

12 Comments:
At 8:52 AM,
Anonymous said…
Love you Mandy
Shannon
At 9:32 AM,
Anonymous said…
Thank you for the update!! Mandy is constantly on our minds and in our prayers.
Love Lj
At 9:48 AM,
Anonymous said…
Great to hear the steady progress! I will be in Dallas March 26-30; I can't wait to see you in person.
Love ya,
Renee
At 10:10 AM,
Anonymous said…
From yesterday...
Amanda started our day off with a hug & “I’ve missed you!” right when she got off the bus. Of course, if that had been all for the day, I would have been happy!
Her 1st session was speech with Leslie. As we approached Leslie, Mandy said, “Are you going to do words on me?” She remembers each of her therapists & what they do.
In PT, she walked using a pole for balance & had a weight wrapped on her left leg that served 2 purposes: If she held the foot up, the weight would help build muscle. If she got tired of holding it up, she would put her weight on that foot, which is what Sarah (PT) wanted. She walked all the way down the halls to her next therapy, but not without a few choice words about it!
Sheri Robertson joined us for the day while Mandy was walking. As soon as she saw Sheri, she said, “I missed your card”. Sheri explained that she mailed it, but with the holiday, it probably took longer in the mail. When Kurt arrived, sure enough he had the card in his briefcase. Sheri sends a card weekly so Mandy has come to expect it. Good sign of the short-term memory!
During lunch, the RA asked Mandy about her friend, referring to Sheri. Amanda answered, “That’s my friend, Sheri Robertson. She’s famous for stealing.” Maybe she knows something about Sheri that the rest of us don’t! Watch out!
After therapy, a nap was unavoidable as Mandy slipped off to sleep while watching TV. Then she was off to have dinner out at Boston Market with other clients.
It was another awesome day in the land of Amanda!
Christine
At 10:25 AM,
Anonymous said…
Hi All,
Thank you so much for the up dates and the web site. Also thanks to Christine for her updates from her visits with Amanda. You all give us a great insight on what is going on in Texas... I feel like I know you all..
Keep up the great work Amanda!!! Sending positive thoughts and energy your way Amanda, Kurt and the rest of you working so hard to get her healed.
Take Care all.
Love Kathi (Wisconsin)
At 4:15 PM,
Anonymous said…
Princess Amanda,
Hello beautiful. Glad to hear you continue to progress. Keep it up and everything will be just fine. We love you a ton. We will try to come see you this weekend.
Love,
Sasha, Mila and Paul
At 12:19 PM,
Anonymous said…
Hey, Mandy, I dreamed about being at a party with you last night - in a restaurant for part of it and a treehouse for the rest. (You know my weird dreams.) Anyway, I miss you, and I hope you're having a good weekend. I'll see you Wednesday at lunch.
Love and big hugs,
Terri
At 10:27 PM,
Anonymous said…
Hey blogoholics!
Today was a VERY relaxing day at the Bethke household. Amanda had a warm & cozy day off at home with the fireplace on and sweet babies around her and one awesome husband pampering her every need! With rain & cold, this was the perfect way to spend her Saturday. April Hylander visited & watched a movie (provided by Tann) for a few hours. Leslie & I stayed most of the day helping out any way we could. Mandy did a few pages in her Word Find book, took a nice long nap, and watched TV for most of the day. When it was time to go back to the apartment, she really wanted to stay right where she was, which I believe is a very good sign. After a bit of coaxing from Kurt, she agreed to go.
Looking forward to hearing about her day with Martha tomorrow…
I love you Mandy! Good night!
Christine (& Pooh:)
At 8:57 AM,
Anonymous said…
I continue to look forward to your progress little one. You have an amazing army of friends and famioly watching over your.
Jude from the shack
At 11:28 AM,
Anonymous said…
Hey Amanda,
Good Morning to you!! Hope you had a great weekend! I heard you have gone home a few times and seen your babies. It must be wonderful for you to visit them and love on them!! We just made my cat an outdoors cat recently. He used to beg to get outside and now he wants to get in. We do keep him in the garage at night to keep him safe from the coyotes. I should have gotten advice from you when we got Snickers!! If we ever get another one I will talk to you first!! Have a good week!
Love,
Debbie
A shout out to you from Everyone in the Southern California office!
At 12:31 AM,
Anonymous said…
Dear Sweet Princess Cousin of mine,
Howdy! You are inspiring everyone that comes to know your story! Is that cool or what? How many people do that ever in thier lives? You are a Great Princess indeed! I've been watching your blog for along time now, almost as long as it's been around. It is very addicting. I love you and wish for Angels to come by and help remind you everyday with just what you need to know. You are doing great! just keep swiming as they say. With all my heart I thibj of you and Kurt too.
Love Paul
At 2:15 PM,
Anonymous said…
Hello Mandy. I miss you and wish you well each day. I hope to see you soon.
Rene T.
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