Our Princess Amanda

On 10/21/05; our princess fell and struck her head. She was rushed to a local hospital and it was discovered that her skull was fractured. She was immediately transferred to ICU and has been under round the clock care ever since. Family and friends are with her constantly. We are doing are best to return phone calls and keep everyone informed of her progress, however, it can be a challenge. Please feel free to check back often and leave comments.

Wednesday, December 07, 2005

December 7, 2005 - Mid-Morning


Mr. and Mrs. Bethke on the move! As with all travel plans, we're having some hiccups but nothing so far that will prevent Kurt from sleeping in his very own bed tonight again for the first time in over 6 week. We were originally scheduled to leave between 9 and 10 AM EST. The ambulance is ready to go, but the airplane has run into some delays and they've pushed us back to 11 AM. This should get us back to Dallas around 2 and hopefully see the Princess settled into the step-down unit at Baylor well before early evening. We were happy to put regular clothes on her for the travel (sweatpants and a Brinker T-shirt of Kurt's) and we have to believe that it feels good to her too.

As good as it feels to head for home, we'd be remiss not to thank the people of Savannah. Bear with us if this is repetitive. First is the unbelievable medical team (her neurosurgeon, Dr. Suh, all of her docs and especially those amazing critical care nurses are all the shizzle in our book) that never gave up on her. They responded to every twitch of her nose with new and cutting edge technology. You all told us that the body heals itself and medicine just helps it along, but we know that we are able to take her home today because of the long nights and sometimes longer days that you gave to her. Gerry, Diane and little Alex - your generosity makes us speechless. Savannah would have been a bitter and dark place if not for you. To all the other families we met during our time at the hospital (most especially Reggie's family), some with family members remaining and some with family members that have moved on. You are warriors. You fought with us and beside us. Be strong for your loved ones and know that we are still thinking about you. Never give up hope; semper fi. And lastly, to all of the nameless strangers that surrounded Brenda with small and large acts of kindness during the first incoherent 18 hours after the accident. The hospital is a terrible place to be alone and feeling helpless. She wasn't able to properly thank you then, but hopes each of you know that you taught her a lesson in compassion and love. You haven't see the last of us Savannah, we hope to bring our girl back when she's walking and talking so you can see the results of our miracle.

29 Comments:

  • At 10:25 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I will see you in Dallas Mouse!

    ron

     
  • At 10:28 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Have a safe flight. I love you Mandy!

    Jess

     
  • At 10:29 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Have a safe flight. I love you Mandy!

    Jess

     
  • At 10:35 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Like Jess, Have a safe flight and I love you Mandy!!
    Lori

     
  • At 10:35 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Like Jess, Have a safe flight and I love you Mandy!!
    Lori

     
  • At 10:51 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Yeah! Mandy has her sweatpants on!! And Kurt's t-shirt...what a nice security blanket for you today:) There will be an unbelievable amount of prayers for y'all today. May you have a safe & smooth flight home. And for Kevin, a safe uneventful drive home.
    I love you so much!
    Christine

     
  • At 10:51 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Can't wait to know that you are safely tucked away in your new warm bed in Dallas.

    Love,
    Terri

     
  • At 10:52 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    hip hip hooray!!!! Love, Aunt Judy and Uncle Herb

     
  • At 11:18 AM, Blogger Corinna B. said…

    To Kurt and Amanda: Prayers and blessings for a safe, smooth and speedy flight back to DFW... and to Kevin, making the drive back... your generousity, love and support of your family, once again, is beyond words, Drive safe! -cb

     
  • At 11:36 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Kurt & Amanda and Kevin,

    Have a very safe journey back to Dallas - we will send all of our prayers and guardian angels to watch over all of you today!!!

    Love,
    Kelly B.

     
  • At 11:47 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    December 7th--Mandy returns home. Once again, a day that will live in Infamy!

    ~ FDR

     
  • At 12:03 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Bring forth the Princess.....we are so anxious for you to come home. The weather isn't great here today but I am sure you all will be fine. You might get to see snow when you get here. Pretty wild but it is true. We love you a ton and can't wait to see you.

    Love,

    Sasha, Mila and Paul

     
  • At 12:04 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy / Kurt,

    You're finally coming home... Lauren and I continue to pray for you and the family.

    Have a safe trip & I hope to see you soon.


    Julie

     
  • At 12:28 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hope you 2 packed your ice skates for your arrival! It's kinda ugly outside today, but the sun is shining on you both :) Love you guys, see you soon!
    -Brian

     
  • At 12:36 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    BTW -- If you need some help coordinating visiting hours, I'm happy to help. We can use the princessmanada.com site to publish a schedule. You can email me at webmaster@princessamanda.com if you like!
    -Brian

     
  • At 12:49 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Kevin just informed me that Jerry Woods was at the airport when the ambulance arrived with Amanda and Kurt. He watched them put her on the plane and take off at 12:29 a.m. EST. She is on her way home.

     
  • At 12:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    that is such great news.........she is in the air as we speak (or type).
    Many are anxiously waiting...

     
  • At 1:12 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I am elated and waiting to see you as soon as you are rested.... I
    will wait and let you reast a couple of days.

    This is the day that we have been
    waiting for...

    Love,
    T'Ann

     
  • At 1:32 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I would like to add my gratitute to the people of Savannah. The doctors, nurses, people that gave up their houses, and strangers who helped someone they didn't even know. You are all angels and are doing the work of God.

    Speaking of God, I am praying that He watch over Kurt and Mandy as they fly home. That He be with the pilots and clear the skies for the Princess' airborne chariot. And that He watch over Kevin and keep him safe on his drive home.

    God has done some much for Mandy, and all of us. We can't forget to give Him thanks. And I would add one more request for the Creator: Please continue to help Mandy heal.

    Fly, Princess, Fly!

    Dan

     
  • At 1:33 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I would like to add my gratitute to the people of Savannah. The doctors, nurses, people that gave up their houses, and strangers who helped someone they didn't even know. You are all angels and are doing the work of God.

    Speaking of God, I am praying that He watch over Kurt and Mandy as they fly home. That He be with the pilots and clear the skies for the Princess' airborne chariot. And that He watch over Kevin and keep him safe on his drive home.

    God has done so much for Mandy, and all of us. We can't forget to give Him thanks. And I would add one more request for the Creator: Please continue to help Mandy heal.

    Fly, Princess, Fly!

    Dan

     
  • At 1:48 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Everyone who reads these updates. I read where some of you mentioning about the weather not being so good in Texas.. Be glad Mandy and Kurt are flying home to Dallas and not Waukesha Wisconsin. We are sunny but 17 degrees above 0 and that is our high for the day.

    No matter what the weather is in Dallas the love from all of you will keep Amanda warm and cozy.

    So happy to hear they are on their way.. Thank God Kurt got to go along with her.

    Kevin still keeping you in my prayers for a safe trip home to Joyce.

    So Excited in Wisconsin!!

    Love Kathi & Rusty

     
  • At 1:53 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Okay blog readers ~ get ready for a little nostalgia and some singing .... I think this little diddy is appropriate for Kurt & Amanda today. let's all sing it (you know you remember it!!) and think of Kurt and Amanda flying back to Big D.

    Believe It Or Not
    Theme Song From The 'Greatest American Hero (80's show)

    Look at what's happened to me
    I can't believe it myself
    Suddenly I'm on top of the world
    Shoulda been somebody else

    *Believe it or not I'm walking on air
    I never thought I could feel so free
    Flying away on a wing and a prayer
    Who could it be?
    Believe it or not it's just me

    Just like the light of a new day
    It hit me from out of the blue
    Breaking me out of the spell I was in
    Making all of my wishes come true

    Chorus

    Who could it be?
    Believe it or not it's just me

    xoxo,
    Courtney

     
  • At 2:36 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    It is a whopping 0 degrees in the great state of Colorado. The high is supposed to be 8. Brrrrr! Although, I cannot believe Wisconsin is warmer than Colorado!
    May your journey be a safe one Amanda, Kurt and Kevin.

    Kristine from frosty Denver, CO
    (Shannon's friend)

     
  • At 2:51 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dan, you filled my eyes with tears... then Courtney, you got me laughing while crying! What a great day! Kurt will be safe riding home from the hospital in "Big Red" with Mike & Leslie:) There are many angels watching over all of us...so glad Mandy's has been working overtime! God knows I need her!
    I'm closing up now. Streets are freezing in my area & I've only tanned 4 people since 8a.m.! Boring!
    Warm fuzzy wishes to all the bloggers today:)
    Christine

    P.S. Dan, we talked about you lots on Saturday at Babe's! Were your ears burning??

     
  • At 3:37 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hurray...Mouse is on her way home. Mandy, give em hell.

    Jeffrey Chapman

     
  • At 4:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Welcome home Amanda & Kurt!

    and ditto to all that Dan said!

    God continue to heal the princess.

    Glo

     
  • At 4:24 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Kurt,
    So glad your finally on your way home. I wish it was a better day to have a home coming. If it fit every one's moode it would be warm and sunny. To think Saturday it was 89 degrees.
    Be safe and take care of your self. Get Amanda safe and sound and tucked in.
    Welcome home ;)
    Ditto on what Dan said, he made tears come to my eyes too.
    God Bless,
    Sue Stolnack

     
  • At 7:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Oh, happy day! I can't be more excited - the holidays and oh so much to be thankful for. Our late night prayers and pleas to the Good Lord to get you, Kurt, Kevin and Brenda home safe is awesome. It is equally as nice to hear of the kind caring folks who taken care of you while in Savannah. I know I appreciate it.

    Now - come back to work - we need you and miss your funny wit and infectious laugh!

    See you soon!!

    Love,

    Lynn Towery

     
  • At 12:06 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Can't wait to see you Amanda! I'm thrilled you both get to come back to your soil.
    Rene

     

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