Our Princess Amanda

On 10/21/05; our princess fell and struck her head. She was rushed to a local hospital and it was discovered that her skull was fractured. She was immediately transferred to ICU and has been under round the clock care ever since. Family and friends are with her constantly. We are doing are best to return phone calls and keep everyone informed of her progress, however, it can be a challenge. Please feel free to check back often and leave comments.

Monday, October 24, 2005

October 24, 2005 - Mid-Day

The roll coaster ride continues. We spoke with both the neurosurgeon and trauma doctors today. The CAT scan done last night showed continued swelling. Per the neurosurgeon, on a scale of 1 to 10, with 10 being the worst, our princess is about an 8-9. To counteract the swelling and pressure, they have started her on a pure saline drip. (She has been reponding well to saline treatments. The idea is to use elevated salt levels to "dry" out the swellings.) In addition, they've ordered a special catheter that they will use to cool her internal body temperatures and assist in also reducing the swelling. They expect the catheter to arrive in the next day or so. At this moment, the team is performing the tracheotomy which should allow her to breathe more efficiently. Should these items not work, they will need to induce a coma. (She has been chemically paralyzed and heavily sedated up to this point, but not comatized.) They would prefer not to do this as it reduces her reactions and makes it more difficult to measure brain activity, but will do so if the swelling cannot be controlled with the other procedures. Her medical team has been wonderful and they are doing everything they can to help our girl fight her battle.

We can't begin to tell you how much your comments have meant to us. We read them to her when we visit with her. In addition, we read them and draw strength from all of you. Sometimes, you even manage to make us smile and we thank you very much for that. Please continue to send your good thoughts and wishes are way, we are doing our best to put them to work.

38 Comments:

  • At 1:16 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    We all miss you. Our family has you in our thoughts and prayers. Get well soon and hurry back.

    Jesse, Andrea, Georgia, & Ben Heathcock

     
  • At 1:18 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Kurt, Ron, and Brenda~
    Keep up the good work. Mandy is very fortunate to have you with her, clear-headed good decision makers, who also happen to love her very much. I hope it helps some to know that so many are keeping Mandy and you in our thoughts. Continue to be as strong and positive as you can, because that girl is the strongest-willed person I know. She'll make you proud.

    God bless,
    Terri

     
  • At 2:12 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Mandy,
    Hang in there, kiddo... I'm thinking about you constantly. We find out the baby's sex this Friday (hopefully), and I really need your help coming up with a name. Dave wasn't all that thrilled about our original options (Jimmy Beam, Jack Daniel, Bailey Cristal) so we still have some work to do. All the others reading this are probably wondering what I'm on, but you remember our family's tradition of naming our pets after adult beverages. Dave wants to break the tradition for the sake of the kids, but we'll see. :)

    Keep fighting and know that there are so many people out here praying and willing you to get better. You've been the rock for so many of us and we need you to come back to us sooner rather than later.

    Signing off for now, but I'll be checking in on you. Get well SOON...

    Michelle & Baby Lebowitz

     
  • At 2:14 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Although I don't have the opportunity to work with you anymore, you are one of nicest people I have met and worked with here at Brinker. So, please fight hard to get better! I am counting on seeing your smiling face here at work again in the near future.

    Bonnie Leigh

     
  • At 2:35 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Miss Amanda,

    You are such a light in so many people's lives. You are so very thoughtful...Everyday you make someone smile or laugh. You entertain us with your crazy antics and stories and songs. You are creative and crazy and you light up a room just by being in it. Please know that you have so many people thinking about you and missing you and wishing for you to get better very soon. Even all of the monkeys in your cube say they miss you. They're not dealing well with all of the quiet in your absence, but we'll do our best to keep them entertained until you get back.

    Be strong, and get well soon...
    Jade

     
  • At 2:53 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    The Facilities group is praying for you (especially big Randy and his cohort Rob!)

    Strength and prayers,

    Jodi, Laura, Karen and all the Fellas

     
  • At 2:59 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, I cant put into words what I felt when I heard the news of your accident. You keep fighting to get well and come back to all of us at Brinker. I have missed having you as my AA for a long time. I miss the little threats that you kept giving me to keep me in line. I want to send you some more pictures of the dogs, I have some new ones that I know will make you laugh and keep you smiling. Keep up the fight,, I know you will kick this and come back just as sparky as ever.

     
  • At 3:06 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Please let Kurt & Amanada know that all their friends at Texstars are awaiting news, & are praying for her safe & complete recovery.
    Jim

     
  • At 3:24 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hello Kurt & Amanda.

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We love you and Kurt and you are forever a part of our lives.
    I have contacted my friends for prayers and will continue to do so.
    Love to you both.
    Lester & Paula Wilson
    Leslie & Phil Wilson
    St. Louis, MO

     
  • At 3:32 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Thanks Hostess!

    Due to my work, I know a bit about coma's. Initial news was that Amanda was in a coma - perhaps not...If so, have the Dr's given any feedback on her Glasgow scores? They are as low as a 3 and as high as a 15. If she was given these basic tests, how has she scored over time?

    The ICP is of course critical, have they had to use bore holes? I saw drainage tubes but unfamiliar with them unless associated with bore holes?

    Where is her fracture? Base of skull? Somewhere else? Displaced Fx or not? Any surgery on the Fx yet?

    You can let Amanda know that Just Dave brought some Choclate Sauce to the Hoptoberfest this year. I was hoping Chris would catch some "cheese" photos. This was before I knew she was out of state and well...out of mind (temporarily)!

    Keep up the good spirits on that end. Thanks for the updates.

    Dave.

     
  • At 3:32 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Manda,
    We are both thinking of you constantly. I have enlisted all the people that stop to talk to me and then some to pray for you. I appreciate this blog so much. A lot people sure do care about you I hope you can feel it.

    You have to be strong and get better becuase we all know you want to make a scrapbook about this.

    Love and Prayers
    Shannon and Mike

     
  • At 3:49 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Be strong and get well soon,

    Jennifer Grieser

     
  • At 4:03 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,

    While you know that everyone is praying for you, I figured perhaps you were getting tired of hearing how much you are loved (OK so maybe that never gets tiring), but anyway, I had a funny emailed to me today and figured I'd pass it on to you, so here is your chuckle of the day:

    A study conducted by UCLA's Department of Psychiatry has revealed that the kind of face a woman finds attractive on a man can differ depending on where she is in her menstrual cycle.



    For example: If she is ovulating, she is attracted to men with rugged and masculine features. However, if she is menstruating, or menopausal, she tends to be more attracted to a man with scissors lodged in his temple and tape over his mouth while he is on fire.



    No further studies are expected.

    Hurry up and get well,
    Lorraine

     
  • At 4:08 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    You and Kurt are in our thoughts and Prayers.
    Keep fighten Girlfriend!
    Hope to see you soon
    Love ya,
    Your Minnesota Friends,
    Theresa(Novak)& Dave
    Skluzacek

     
  • At 4:46 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with both Amanda and all of her loving friends and family. Please let us know if you need anything.

    Love,

    Jay and Daniel

     
  • At 5:22 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda -

    I haven't had the opportunity to work with you very long, but now I don't wish to attend BTG meetings or Corp Stat meetings without you!!!!

    You are my partner in crime in keeping those Brinker CA guys on the straight and narrow. If it would help you, I would boycott the meetings, but unfortunately it would probably get me fired & not help you in the process!!!

    You fight & get better girl. We will miss you tremendously until you are back here dialing and mis-dialing those crazy conference calls!

    My prayers are with you.

    Cindy Malone

     
  • At 5:34 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    My Little Monkey,

    The girls have been keeping me updated while I'm in Buffalo. I'm praying for you & know you'll make it through this! I love you girl!

    Kurt, Ron, & family, my thoughts are with you all. Continue to be strong.

    Love,
    Jessica, Maggie, & Lucy

     
  • At 5:37 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    I just heard... I will be praying steadfastly for you and Kurt and will be sure to contact my friends for the same.

    We love you and miss you...

    Chrystal, Bryan and Ben

     
  • At 6:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Amanda,

    I am sending my love and prayers and healing thoughts to you. I know you will recover from this. We have a lot of tap dancing to do!! The shoes are waitng for you at my desk!
    Know God's loving arms are holding you.
    I love you,
    Melanie

     
  • At 6:46 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Amanda,

    Although we haven't spoken in a very long time, you are a special person to me. During my time at "Chili's Home Office" (before Brinker Intl), your smile brought joy to each day. When I heard about this terrible accident, I immediately thought about your cheerful nature and how lucky we all are to have you in our lives. May God bless and keep you safe.
    You and your family are in my prayers.
    xo-Wendi Williams Strange

     
  • At 6:46 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    amanda ... remember when I said I was going to nominate you and jess for star awards for the next employee meeting and you two sillies would have to walk up to the stage w/out cracking up??
    You're a star in my eyes ms amanda b/c you are such a joy to be around and you love kitties, just like me! :)

    Please come back to work soon, Jess needs someone to keep her laughing.

    xoxo,
    Courtney

     
  • At 6:53 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    To my Amandariffic Ms. Amandamerica, ruler of all that is Amandalicious and Amazingly Amanda,

    I love and miss you, and want you to know we are all right here, steadfast and strong together, with all our Amandergies focused and Amandafesting a most brilliant and pure white light supporting, protecting and healing, our precious Amanda in Amancipation, as the swelling subsides, and you breath easy, ready to begin your swift and most Amandatory recovery.

     
  • At 8:31 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Bob & Margaret Bayer send there love & best wishes to Mouse and her family. Her spirit has always been strong and now she needs all of our love to help her pull through this ordeal. We love you all.

     
  • At 8:59 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hang in there and get back soon. We all missed seeing you at the hoptoberfest; so, we should start planning a(n) Amandafest upon your safe return!
    --All the Knights!

     
  • At 10:02 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    I trust you are enjoying your bit of rest as you heal and plan you strategy with God to confound the doctors. Wish I could be there to hold your hand along with Kurt and everyone else.

    My prayers are with you. I know that God is with you and guiding your healing. He will give you the strength you need and will care for all your family who are waiting to hear you telling them what to do, when to do it and in general running the whole show.

    Love
    Pastor Deborah

    PS. Kurt, Ron,Sandy and all know that I am praying that you have all sorts of arms around you to care and love you as you wait for God to do his thing in healing the mouse.

     
  • At 11:33 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    hi amanda-
    i have been thinking about you all day long and praying that you will get better any minute. i will talk to you tomorrow. i love you!
    sheri

     
  • At 11:47 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy:

    I am praying for you. You are strong. We need you. We all need you.

    Jeff Vernor

     
  • At 1:08 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, Amanda, Amanda,

    You are going to be tired of comments about how we all thought you were more hard headed than this. The office is quiet without you, I miss you walking around the corner about 7:15 a.m. everyday, and Loft has a great sale going on right now! Who will buy the petites?! Know that we are praying for you. Many thanks to the folks who set this web-site up so we can e-mail you....er...blog with you, uh, let you know we are thinking about you every minute...

     
  • At 2:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Meow, Meow, Meow, Meeeeeeeow!

    ~ Maurice, Henri, Marcel & Simone

     
  • At 3:35 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    You are in my constant prayers, and it is obvious you are surrounded by those who love and care for you very much. I watch the web site several times a day, and expect to hear of your complete recovery.

    May God protect you,

    Steven Bader

     
  • At 8:46 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hello Amanda,

    I have been thinking about you every minute since Paul told me about your accedent.
    I'm praying for you. You are very strong and I belive in you.
    All the best,

    Sasha & Mila

     
  • At 10:53 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hey Mandy!
    I posted a message before but I'm not sure if it went up; either way, I'm still thinking about you and willing you to get better. Stay strong, I love you and will see you soon!

    Kurt and everyone,
    thanks for keeping up this page, it's somewhat of a relief to read what's going on... I'll get up there saturday for sure if not earlier.

    Love you all!
    Alicia

     
  • At 10:55 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Kurt,
    Everyone at Texstar is pulling for you and Amanda. We are all sending you good thoughts for continued strength and courage.
    -May the peace of God, which passes all understanding surround your hearts and minds...

    -Lisa Vallon

     
  • At 10:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    You are in my thoughts and prayers every minute of the day. I pray that the doctors have the wisdom to take care of you and that you have the strength to keep fighting. I pray for you family. They love and care for you so much. By reading all the messages from your friends, I can tell that you are loved by many. We enjoy your smile and your great attitude. Keep fighting! We love you!

    Nelda Swenson

     
  • At 11:06 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    Marcel is always at the door waiting,Maurice is not too far behind,Simone is on the kitchen counter waiting for you to come back and cook something yummy, and of course Henri always comes downstairs for some love they told me to tell you they miss their mommy and want you to get better so they can give you lots of love. I told them that you are fighting your way back to them and you would be home soon enough to give them all the treats they can stand.
    We have been watching your babies for the last few years and we want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You know that we will provide the love and attention to your babies until your return.
    Lead her to a place
    Guide her with your grace
    To a place where she'll
    be safe.
    God Bless!!!

    Alan and Candice (pet sitters)

     
  • At 11:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Kurk and Mandy,
    We just heard the news and wanted you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Hang in there girl you can do it!!

    Get well soon and hurry back!

    Love Harold and Vicki Been

     
  • At 11:37 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,
    You hang in there girl!
    You're in our thoughts and prayers.
    Looking forward to having you back at Brinker.
    Fight hard,
    Miles Hersey

     
  • At 11:54 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda -

    You travellin' fool!!! Of all the amazing things you've done in all the amazing places you've visited, who would've thought you'd hurt yourself in Savannah?!? I'm praying for you to get better soon so you can start planning your next vacation (what am I thinking - I'm sure you already have it on the calendar!) and we can get together for lunch soon! Please, please, please get better!!

    Love, Sandy Worth

    p.s. my brother had a lengthy stay in ICU earlier this year and the tracheostomy DID speed up his recovery. After the trach, he was expected to spend another few weeks in ICU but ended up in a regular hospital room within days. I expect the same of you!

     

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