Our Princess Amanda

On 10/21/05; our princess fell and struck her head. She was rushed to a local hospital and it was discovered that her skull was fractured. She was immediately transferred to ICU and has been under round the clock care ever since. Family and friends are with her constantly. We are doing are best to return phone calls and keep everyone informed of her progress, however, it can be a challenge. Please feel free to check back often and leave comments.

Saturday, October 22, 2005

October 22nd, End of Day

We've been learning a lot about head trauma. According to the medical staff (her neurosurgeon, trauma doctor, her dedicated trauma nurses: Heather, Trixie and Jennifer), the first 72 hours following the trauma are critical. When the brain has been bruised (as Amanda's was when the skull fractured) it is likely to swell. The danger is that extreme swelling creates pressure on the brain and more critically, brain stem (which controls the basic organ functions).

The staff is working to keep any swelling and related pressure under control. They have inserted a sensor into her head to monitor the inner cranial pressure (ICP) and some drain lines to remove any excess fluids. As well, they are working to make sure that the requirements on her brain are minimized. One of the ways they accomplish this is chemically inducing a coma. She is heavily sedated and receiving significant pain medications. She is not concious of her surroundings. She does not appear to be in distress or pain.

We have made it through the first 48 hours since the trauma and she appears to be holding steady right now. Although there is swelling, the trauma team and her neurologist seem to be o.k. with her current stats. The trauma team commented today that her clinical exam (the physical exam where they temporarily suspend sedation in order to test responsiveness, i.e. pinch her and wait for to move away) is better than her numbers would indicate. Her trauma doctor took this as a good sign.

Sunday visits will take us through the remaining portion of the critical 3 day period. We are hopeful that her stats remain steady to even potentially improving.

Currently, her husband Kurt, her brother Ron and her good friend Brenda are with her during every permissable hour. Since she's technically only permitted to have 2 visitors at a time, we've been lucky so far that they've let us all in. The nurses have said that no one knows for sure what she might or might not be able to hear or ultimately remember, but we are talking to her and encouraging her. We will read her any comments left on this site.

Since she is in ICU, she cannot receive flowers, balloons etc. The best thing anyone can for her now is send good karma, pray to your chosen diety (or dieties for the pagans amongst you) and wait for things to improve.

49 Comments:

  • At 12:26 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I love you Mandy! You have a million people praying for you! Batman keeps getting in my suitcase...I think he wants to come so he can snuggle with you & give you 100 kiss's:)
    Your babies are in good hands with the sitter & Mike & Leslie are visiting so they don't get too lonely. They are also watering your plants, so the bathtub planter and Plumeria's should be gorgeous when you come home.
    I miss you!
    Love,
    Christine

     
  • At 1:29 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi, Amanda -- We are all sending our love and prayers for your recovery. It's just not the same around here at Brinker without you -- When you get back, we'll all take turns running your Sensitivies for you -- that should make you smile!
    Get well real soon, Linda H

     
  • At 2:57 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You are loved by everyone who knows you. My prayers are with you.
    Looking forward to seeing you again.
    Wes L.

     
  • At 3:34 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, I wish you a quicky and speedy recovery. I have come good karma stored up, so I'll lend you some
    love,
    Kimber, Empress of the Universe and Mark, Future Emperor of the Universe.

     
  • At 3:39 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda-Our prayers and positive thoughts are with you. May you be blessed with a safe recovery.

    Kurt-Please do not hesitate to call upon us if you need anything back on the homefront.

    Your friends,
    Eric and Jenn

     
  • At 3:56 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, you are in all of our thoughts and prayers. Looking forward to your quick recovery so you can get back to the office and provide us with a daily dose of your witty charm.

    Clay Fuller and family

     
  • At 4:21 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda - Clay, Kyle, Alex and I are praying for you and sending you "love and good wishes"! I'll be anxious to see your smiling face back at work - Lord knows we need your straight-forward, witty comments to keep us going!

    Kurt - anything you need that I can possibly help with, please let me know. Linda Higgins will know how to get ahold of me, or you can email me at Brinker, or call.

    Much love,

    Lynn Towery and family

     
  • At 4:41 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hey Amanda! Wanted to let you and your family know that you are in our prayers around the office. We will sure be happy to have your smiling face and silly personality back in the office soon. Get well soon!

    Love,
    Brooke (your fellow Happy Hour Karaoke Parner) : )

     
  • At 5:17 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda: It is too quiet two cubes down. Miss you passing by, so get back soon. Thanks for the updates.
    Pam G.

     
  • At 6:20 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy, Please get well soon... Your strength is needed to offset all the evil in the world today! Get Well, Be Well, Live Long and Prosper!

    Love,

    Alan, Janice and Joey Wilkerson

    P.S. You have to tell us of your dreams while under anesthesia... and did any ghosts visit you?

     
  • At 7:47 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,

    Geez, woman, you do love being the center of attention but this is just a little overboard! Seriously, all my good karma and energy are coming your way. Speed through recovery to be back with us soonest. We cannot be without your wit, will, and wile for a very long while!

    Love, hugs,

    Char

     
  • At 8:05 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda--
    I stopped by on Friday to tap into some of your always creative ideas for a Halloween costume. I had no idea you had fallen. Fight hard and come back to us soon. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. --Channing L.

     
  • At 8:12 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, God bless. Hope you are well girl! Will be thinking about you :)

    Vicki B

     
  • At 8:17 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,
    We were stunned when we heard the news. We didn't know what to do, so we went down to Lafittes Blacksmith shop in the French Quarter where we were together when you were here. But, rats, the place was closed due to Katrina aftermath.
    You will have to come back with Kurt.
    Our thoughts, prayers, hopes, and dreams are all with you both. We are still living in exile in our RV in Baton Rouge.
    Love to you both.
    Walt And Sherri
    New Orleans
    (Wendy and Dommino too!)

     
  • At 8:20 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Whoever though of this blog idea is great!!.... Kinda an online scrapbook for Mandy.
    Thanks
    Walt

     
  • At 9:20 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,

    As all of the comments before said, all of my thoughts and good wishes I send your way. YOu have a lot of people pulling fo ryou so take the hint and get well soon.

    Brenda, don't you worry about Mojo at all, he's having a good time. He got to visit with everyone at the pumpkin carving party today.

    Keep all your thoughts focused where they need to be, do you need anyone to go check on the cats???
    Let me know.

    If any of you need anything please don't hesitate to ask, all of us would like to help if we can.

    Lorraine

     
  • At 9:31 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hey Amanda,

    I'm so sorry to hear this happened. My thoughts and prayers are with you every day & night. I hope you get well soon.

    Love ya,
    Erin

     
  • At 10:04 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    It’s quite amazing the number of times you’ve crossed my mind in the last couple of days. Sipping a glass of wine, sharing a laugh, planning faraway travel...I’ve shared so many of the joys and wonders of life with you and Kurt. Thank you for being such deep and true friends, and here’s looking forward to many more great times in the future. You were sorely missed yesterday at Hoptoberfest, and all the Knights are wishing you the best as well. (Kurt, Old #7 misses you). Take care, get well, and live long and prosper.

    Your Friend,
    Chris Owen

     
  • At 11:30 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, our thoughts and prayers are with you and Kurt and your doctors and nurses. Get well and come back soon!!

    Kurt, as several others have mentioned, don't hesitate to call if I can do anything down here to help.

    Glenn G.

     
  • At 1:50 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Princess Amanda,

    You mean so much to me. You and Kurt have always been the best of friends to me. I am praying that you get well soon. I am positive you will be fine.

    Love you and miss you.

    PAC

     
  • At 3:41 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Many prayers and positive thoughts are heading your way from Merry Old England. We wish you the speediest of recoveries.

    Jay and Daniel

     
  • At 5:24 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    hey mandy :)

    I wish this hadn't happened to you, but I know your strength and I have to believe you'll be fine after all of this. I'm thinking about you every day and I know i'm not alone in saying I hope you get well very soon! There's a lot of people in orlando that are praying for you! My mother says she sends her best wishes and thoughts for your recovery. I miss you and I love you!

    Kurt- as I said before, I'm less than 5 hours away. just let me know when it'd be best for me to go see her and you guys. I'm thinking about you and Ron everday as well, I'm glad you aren't up there alone. love you too!

    Alicia

     
  • At 8:40 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hey Mandy,

    Wishing you strength as you continue to heal. You're in our prayers and I know that we have many more fun times ahead together. I think that a little rest and relaxation is called for in Destin. The condo is almost finished so we'll do the mini Hodja reunion as soon as you're able. Much love and hugs. Yvette

     
  • At 8:52 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hey, crazy! We love you and pray that you get better real soon. The carpool is just not the same without you.

    Kurt, LJ and I are just around the corner if you need us to do anything at all with the cats or the house. Just let us know!

    Love,
    Deana Meche

     
  • At 9:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, when you asked me what you could bring me back from your trip I just said for you to bring yourself back.....I meant it!! Get well soon - we'll save your spot in the carpool, in the meantime we'll strap the monkey in the back seat in your honor! :o)

    Love Lj

     
  • At 9:12 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,

    Fight woman, fight back!

    Love,

    Char

     
  • At 9:27 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,
    I Miss you and Love you very much. I want you to get well soon so we can go eat German Food.

    Hurry Back!
    Randy

     
  • At 9:27 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Please tell Mandy how much I miss her here at work. Lunches are not the same without her. Tell her that my Sunday School class is praying for her and by Wednesday, my entire church will be praying for her. I'm praying for you guys as well. Love you all. Lori

     
  • At 10:28 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    hey princess - i got my lei!! it is so gorgeous - only you would think about me getting lei'd on my b'day!! i think that my dad liked it even more - he was so impressed with you! i went to the beach this w/e with my family since i am supposed to start chemo -yikes in 2 days- it was our last chance to get out of town. glo didn't give me the news until a few minutes ago. i am so sorry that you are in pain & hurting - i know that you can & will get well - you have to - you have been my shining star this last month - i love to get your cards & books& lei's! - were you tired of sharing the spotlight??? i love you and am thinking & praying for you 24/7 -i love you & kurt if you need me to do anything while you are gone - please let me know - anything - 972-298-0750
    i love yall!!!! sheri

     
  • At 12:09 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Amanda,

    You and your family have been on our minds ever since we heard about your accident. We are constantly thinking about you, Kurt, and your loved ones who, thankfully, are able to be there by your side. We wish we could be there with you and your family to help out in some way. We know you are strong and your love of life will get you through this difficult time. We can't wait to see you back at home in Dallas and at work where you belong. We are praying for you to get well soon, and look forward to dancing on the docks again with our "dancing princess," Amanda.

    All our love,
    Connie & Robert

     
  • At 12:14 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,

    Lots of love and prayers are being sent your way for a speedy recovery. Gene and Christine have been so good to keep us updated on your progress. The babies are doing fine. Marcel even told me that he and the other babies miss you and Daddy and want you to come home to them as soon as you feel better. The plants are all beautiful and are receiving lots of love and water. You have such a great support team with you there and here at home. Keep making the good progress and we hope to see you very, very soon!

    Kurt,

    Anything else we can do, please don’t hesitate to let us know.

    We love you guys,

    Mike and Leslie

     
  • At 12:20 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,
    Larry & I are thinking about you and sending lots of prayers your way. You have to get well & come see where your frogs are hanging on the dock.
    We love you,
    Barb and Lar
    XXOO

     
  • At 12:29 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You know we all love you, that does not need to be said. Just want you to know we are thinking about you and now it is time to get better for Captain Kirt and the rest of us.

    Les & Deb

     
  • At 1:14 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Amanda,
    The California Team is praying for your speedy recovery. We miss your cheerful spirit. Come visit us when you are feeling better. A dose of California sunshine this winter will do wonders for you.

    Be strong!
    Love, Joan.

     
  • At 1:22 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Amanda..There are lots of prayers going your way! There is good positive energy and good Angels all around you giving you the strength to help you fight this! Your Mom and Christine will be by your side soon!
    Love,
    Mary..Christine's Mom!

     
  • At 1:23 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Princess Amanda,

    Cheeky the monkey wants you to get well... he says "Eeeh, eeeh." Kaos also says she wants to see your smile and can't wait to jump around your neck. We are all sending you a bunch of karma and Aloha...

    Love,
    Donna & Floyd

     
  • At 3:01 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,

    Thoughts and prayers from your family in Indiana! You know mom (Judy) will be wearing out the prayer chain until we see your smile lighting up the room again!

    We love you and your family and will be keeping close tabs on your recovery.

    The Denharts

     
  • At 10:34 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,
    All the family in California are sending their best wishes for a full and speedy recovery. Know our thoughts are with you.
    Love,
    Sheila, Don, Uncle Bill and the Family

     
  • At 10:16 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    When my precious daughter, Amanda, was six years old, she was hit by a car. Her skull was crushed and the bone penetrated her brain. The doctor's performed emergency neurosurgery on her immediately to save her life and told us she might not survive and if she did that she would most likely be brain damaged. To make a long story short, Amanda had two neurosurgeries, eye surgery and two years of rehabilitation. She did survive and went on to graduate from college with a teaching degree. She now is a missionary in Indonesia and teaching children at an international school. She is a wonderful and lovely human being that God has used with all of her life experiences. I would encourage Amanda Bethke's family to not give up hope and pray for her complete recovery. Miracles do happen.

    Angela
    (This is an email sent to Linda Higgins from Angela Dinwiddie in the Legal Dept.)

     
  • At 11:07 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    I'm so sorry to hear this happened. My thoughts and prayers are with you . I hope you get well soon.

    John Nguyen.

     
  • At 11:16 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Everyone in Minnesota is praying for you Amanda--keep fighting!! You are surrounded by people who love you both near & far. We are all thinking of your bright and wonderful personality & can't wait to see you again!
    All Our Love-
    Tony,Patty,Collin & Jenna Novak

     
  • At 11:35 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    We all wish you the speediest of recoveries. The crew here at Brinker is praying for your recovery. Some of these guys haven't prayed this hard since their SAT's. Get well and get back soon.

    Paul S

     
  • At 12:44 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda:Everyone at Brinker is thinking about you.I know that you can feel the collective group hug and kisses coming all the way from 6820 LBJ in Dallas.Be strong and let all of the love from your friends at Brinker feed your recovery.We are looking forward to seeing you soon:)
    Doug Brooks and all of the Brinkerheads

     
  • At 4:03 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You are in my thoughts and prayers. May you have a full and speedy recovery.

    Love,
    Ashley

     
  • At 9:53 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Precious Amanda ~ Kurt ~ I love you both so very much. I'm hanging on to you little lady. We all love you so much. You are the glue that holds so many of us together. I have told you many times that you have no idea how special you are to me. My heart and soul are there with you my dear. Love to you ~~ TAnn

     
  • At 9:17 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    My dearest Mandy...I Just got home from seeing you. In the future, please have all bad accidents in TX!!
    I met an Angel on the plane who made my flight much better than I expected it to be. Joe will be putting you on his prayer list at church & watching your blog.
    It's amazing how many people are praying for your recovery. Look at the success stories posted! If they can do it, Princess Amanda CAN & WILL!!! Beat the odds! You'll get more attention that way:)
    We still need "Christine & Amanda day" in McKinney. Something for you to look forward to:) I'll buy lunch this time.
    Guys, please kiss her from Gene & I and our babies! XXXXXX OOOOOO

     
  • At 9:35 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You and your family are in my prayers, you have been sine Shari told me about you, may God bless all of you, Granma

     
  • At 11:42 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy, I am in shock to hear about your accident! I just heard from my mother, who heard from Margaret Bayer, last night. I have started my continuous praying for your earthly healing by our Awesome Lord and Savior! You are in His hands, you are His child, take comfort and know that you will be healed. We all are praying for you! Keep Strong! Love Ya!
    Debbie Wilber Fritz

     
  • At 7:09 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hello Amanda,
    You probuley have never heard of me but my name is Brittany. I just wanted you to know that my mom and I our praying for you. We hope that you make a full recovery.

     

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