Our Princess Amanda

On 10/21/05; our princess fell and struck her head. She was rushed to a local hospital and it was discovered that her skull was fractured. She was immediately transferred to ICU and has been under round the clock care ever since. Family and friends are with her constantly. We are doing are best to return phone calls and keep everyone informed of her progress, however, it can be a challenge. Please feel free to check back often and leave comments.

Monday, October 31, 2005

October 31, 2005 - Evening

Our girl has given us a little bit of encouragement tonight. Although the neurosurgeon has not yet been able to evaluate the CAT scan, one of the trauma docs shared with us that it shows "slight improvement". In addition, they've confirmed that her brain did not herniate. (Her brain did not overswell onto the brain stem causing brain death) The rest of her body appears to remain strong. She is attempting to "overbreathe" the respirator. This is a good sign as it means that her brain has sufficient function to try and breathe on its own. She has slight pneumonia, which is common and they are treating.

It will take days if not more than a week plus for the phenobarbital to work its way out of her system. Until then, she is under a powerful chemical paralytic. Once that works its way out, we'll be hoping that our girl regains some level of conciousness and any potential brain damage is minimal. There is no set time table for coma periods in head trauma. We just have to be patient and let our girl heal as she is able. We are discovering that this is a long term marathon, but we believe our girl can win it and we are all with her the entire distance.

50 Comments:

  • At 7:25 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    WHuuuu HOOOOOO! Go Amanda Go Amanda (sung to GO SPEED RACER)

    you're a fighter ~ one of a kind
    don't you forget
    that your on all of our minds
    ALL the TIME!!!!!!!!!
    :)
    we love you!

    your friends in dallas

     
  • At 7:31 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Everyone who reads this and is following Mandy's "recovery" is, in spirit, with those of you who are physically there with her. Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you. There are a lot of people praying for Mandy.

    Folks keep sending this beautiful web site to every one you know. Those who do not know Mandy, will know her after reading the comments. An extra prayer or two always helps.

    Mandy you are on our minds, in our hearts and in our prayers.

     
  • At 7:35 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    This poem reminded me of Amanda ...
    God probably wants her b/c she's such a sunshine, but guess what? She's not ready yet! :)

    God's Wheel
    by Shel Silverstein

    God says to me with a kind smile,
    "Hey how would you like to be God awhile
    And steer the world?"
    "Okay," says I, "I'll give it a try.
    Where do I set?
    How much do I get?
    What time is lunch?
    When can I quit?"
    "Gimme back that wheel," says God,
    "I don't think you're quite ready yet."

     
  • At 7:38 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,
    It was hard waiting for what seemed like forever for an update on such an important day (with the CAT scan/results), so i am very happy to hear of more encouraging developments. Patience has never been one of my best attributes... but, i can have all the patience in the world to wait as long as it takes, as long as you continue to get better! Keep it up, girl! I have faith in you!
    love,
    amy p

     
  • At 7:59 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Wonderful! We are so encouraged!
    Keep up the good work, Mand -- we love you and are pulling for you.

    Carolyn and all

     
  • At 8:17 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    oh my god - i am so happy to get the update - i have been checking all day! i love whoever is in charge of the updates!!
    amanda you can do it - you are doing so well - i am thankful for every little step that you take in the right direction! keep it up cutie. i love you so much,
    sheri

     
  • At 8:22 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Good news! Small steps leading to big jumps! You keep fighting, Amanda. We're all praying all day and all night! I saw a funny email about cats today - get well and come back so you can see the cute little things!
    Kyle and Alex (our kids, 8 and 6), along with Clay and I are praying every night at dinner, and in bedtime prayers. Alex can't say Amanda real well - it comes out as Amana! I told him not to worry - Jesus knows who he's talking about, especially with all the prayers he's hearing!

    Kurt/Mom/Ron - if there is anything that can be done to help, please let me know.

    Lynn Towery Brinker Legal lynn.towery@brinker.com or 972-770-8617.

     
  • At 8:37 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Happy Halloween Amanda, I too have had no trick-or-treaters. The cats are wound up though and keeping me entertained. Hope you have a good night. Sweet dreams..........Oh just got my first knock at the door.
    Love you, Sean

     
  • At 8:57 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Wow! We had a bunch of trick-or-treaters tonight! Mandy, you would have really enjoyed it here:) I can so picture you in your monkey cheerleader outfit screeching loudly! You taught me the monkey sound! Sean said nobody has ever taught him, so you'll have to take care of that when you get home:) EVERYBODY needs to know how to sound like a monkey right?!
    This year, we've seen lots of our neighbors carting kids around on the golf carts & pick ups. They had some really cute costumes...you know me, I'm a sucker for the littlest ones like Paige:) She was the cutest lion in the world!
    The "big boys" got locked in the garage during the candy hours. Tigger was fluffy with the 1st group so we didn't take any chances.

    We are sooo proud of you for continuing to pull through this mess! I agree with someone else...Halloween do-over when you get home & feel up to it:)

    Well, we love you so much Mandy! Sweet dreams! Don't let the bed bugs bite!

    Gene & Christine & babies
    XXXXXX OOOOOO

     
  • At 9:12 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,
    I was so glad to hear the news today that you are doing better. I continue to pray for you along with my family. I was a clown at work today and won Funniest Costume! Remember when I was Pee-Wee Herman at Brinker? Gloria lent me that scooter and I road all through the hallways! That was fun. Continue to get better and we will reminisce some more very soon!
    James Berry :-)

     
  • At 9:38 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Wheeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwww! yeah!!!!!!!!!!!! Way to go Amanda. I swear this was the longest day. I think I've developed carpul tunal syndrome and developed OCD (continual refreshing of the site for new postings). :) I'm so happy to hear some encouraging news. Thank you to whomever updated the site!

    Lots of prayers, faith and love to you all. Keep holding on.
    Rene

     
  • At 9:41 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,

    Okay, okay, Sleeping Beauty, you win the contest for the best costume. But your prince who is there with you and your three other princes (and princess) at home are giving you lots of kisses which means it's time to wake up. I know, I know, you will wake up on your own time, but we're all impatient and want it to happen now. By the way, you have lots and lots of reading to do when you wake up. You've become quite the legend in your short little life, girlfriend.

    We love you,

    Leslie & Mike

     
  • At 9:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda ~ This is the greatest blessing ~ words cannot describe how much this spark of light makes me feel. I am worthless it seems for like everyone else, you are all that is on my mind.

    They pay me to work 2 jobs and they surely didn't get their $'s worth out of me last week.

    We hang on to these words of hope and know you are hearing our words of love.

    Thanks to you Kurt and Ron for all you do to keep us informed. We are truly grateful. Hope you get a good night of rest for you are really special ~ Love, TAnn

     
  • At 9:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Oh my gosh, that's good news!!! I know I've said this before, but I'll say it again. This blog is a wonderful thing! Amanda, so many people love you and can't wait for you to get better. You have touched so many lives, in one way or another. One important thing you taught me is that 'a princess always gets her way' and I know your way would be to get better and get back home here. Just think of your kitties.

    Old friends are taking trips down memory lane (hi James Berry). Well, here's one for ya.....remember the slumber parties we had, one at my house and then one at yours. We went roller skating and acted like teenagers (well, that was a long time ago and we were barely adults.) It was so much fun! There are plenty of more fun times ahead.
    The Lord is with you Amanda!
    'Harry'

     
  • At 10:05 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    When trick or treating with the boys, but kept thinking about getting back to get an update. Thanks for the update. We will continue to pray each day and night.
    Dallas is on your side.

     
  • At 10:11 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I'm so happy about the better news tonight. I will never say that you are all talk, no action. Good grief, you are a friggin' super hero!! I love you and can't wait until you wake up and start bossing everyone around. (Never thought you'd hear that from me, huh?)

    Sweet dreams to all...
    Terri

     
  • At 10:20 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    AWESOME!!!!! I told you today was going to be a good day.

    Kurt, we continue to pray for your strength and courage during all this.

    Love,
    Judy and Kelly

     
  • At 10:26 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Oh, yeah...

    PS - Mandy, if you keep getting better and get back home as soon as you can, I promise not to give you grief about your nasty used Kleenex that you never want to throw away. I won't call you gross or cheap or make that face that means "yuck". I will try very hard to keep this promise!

    Terri

     
  • At 10:37 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Now Mandy you are doing fine, But if your in there dreaming we need back here for awhile so come up to surface so we can see you. About 10,000 Angels need to see you smile. It's ok tho they and we will wait until you think it is time to do so. But Please don't wait too long. We Love You very much, keep coming now, keep coming.

     
  • At 10:38 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You mean the one between the seats in her car?

     
  • At 10:43 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    A baby squirrel bit Kelly on the toe in his garage:) I know, I can hear you..."I want a baby squirrel to bite ME on the toe!" ...go to Kelly & Judy's house! Gotta get well 1st:) Hmmm, incentive:0)
    Love-
    CN

     
  • At 10:43 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    That's the one - I think it's at least 3 years old by now!

     
  • At 11:07 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Sweet dreams little Princess. Hoping you wake up soon!

    To all there with Amanda....you're in my prayers as well.
    Rene

     
  • At 11:20 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    As I said you've been the prom queen long enough...now about me.Not really, but I know how much you love Halloween and I wish you were out and about in one of your creative costumes. Hurricane Katrina hit our area hard so I had to be creative with my Halloween costume. I drove through Krispy Cream and got a paper hat. I found one of Skips chef shirts from a mardi gras costume. I was the Krispy Cream girl. Not as creative as your costumes, but you would have had fun Trick or Treating with us. The girls even got FEMA vienna sausages as goodies. Skips car was damaged in the storm, but the golf cart survived. We turned it into the Halloween-mobile. It was THE BOMB. You'll have to join us next Halloween. Sweet Sweet Dreams
    Yvette

     
  • At 11:50 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Amanda,

    Trick or Treat? Happy Halloween!

    Hur Rah! I am so glad to hear you are being strong! I miss you so much! Just wanted you to know the details of our adventure tonight. We had tons of trick or treators in our neighborhood. Mark had to rob (or as Mark says "RECYCLE")Mason and Miles candy from their bags for more candy to hand out.
    The boys and I also went to this house in our hood that was really spooky! You have to see it...this guy was on stilts, making himself about 9ft tall, dressed really scarey pointing where to get the candy in his dark creepy garage. Once he had the kids in the garage he started banging on the garage metal door and started making scary noises with an air hose. My boys wet their pants! You have to visit this house next year!

    Love you,
    Martha

     
  • At 12:38 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Princess Amanda,

    You rock. Keep up the good work. We are here to support you. We can't wait to see you again. We miss you so much.

    Love you,

    Sasha, Mila and Paul

     
  • At 5:56 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Good morning little lady ~ As I start my day I send you love and strength across the miles. As we await each tiny bit of progress, it reminds me that you have those tiny feet and so the steps may be small back to us. But hey, look at the many miles you and Kurt have gone together all over the world. Awesome is what you are!

    We are eager for you to be back with us as your smiling bubbly self but understand that you are just a tiny little lady.

    I continue to say your name and hold you close. Kurt, Ron, and Brenda ~ you are our heroes! Love to all of you ~ TAnn

     
  • At 6:16 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Morning, sweetie. Hope you have a good day today. Keep getting better.

    Love,
    Terri

     
  • At 7:02 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Good morning Amanda, you strong little fighter. Keep it up now missy. Fred and I were talking about you yesterday in a meeting and he misses your singing. For such a little person you make such a big imprint in people's lives. Get better and come back to us!

     
  • At 7:06 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Good morning little one! Can't wait to hear what great things you've done since the last update!

    I slept better last night than I have in 12 nights...good enough to oversleep by 45 minutes! Yikes! Haven't done that yet this year! Well, I think it's because you are doing so much better:)

    Still praying for a speedy recovery & your safe return. Can't wait to see your beautiful smile:)

    Thank you 3 angels for the detailed update last night! Kurt, I'm visiting your babies Wednesday after work so if you'd like anything, let me know.

    Love to all,
    Christine

     
  • At 7:44 AM, Blogger Danny Sims said…

    A friend of Kurt's sent me the link and I posted it on my blog today...

    We're praying for you.

     
  • At 8:42 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, keep fighting, we know you can do it!!!!

    As always my thoughts and prayer are with you!

    Carla McGregor

     
  • At 8:52 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Good Morning All! I am so encouraged by some good news. Amanda we are all looking forward to getting you back on your feet. Keep up the good work you little fighter you!!

    Ummmm, I didn't know about the Kleenex between the seats - if I'm riding in the Jetta, then we need to talk about this! I'll buy you a new box of Kleenex, if not for you, then for the rest of us that ride with you! :o) Besides, knowing you, you probably have 6 months worth stored up in your closet because they were on sale and you had a coupon! I need you to come back, you're my link to the grocery game - how do I know what's on sale each week???

    I hope you're off the charts better today!! Miss you!!

    Love Lj

     
  • At 9:09 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Amanda
    It's always great to hear the good news, keep it up!
    We all know that your a fighter. You got to continue to keep getting better. Dave and I are ready for your big bash, When you get back to Texas.
    KEEP FIGHTEN GIRLFRIEND -YOU CAN DO IT!
    Love ya
    Theresa and Dave
    Your Friends in
    Minnesota

     
  • At 9:14 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy,

    Take your time healing. Know that we are all doing what we can to help you. We are standing right there with Kurt, Ron and Mom...even if it is only in spirit. All I am asking is that you come back.

    You survived Flight 401, I know you can make it through this!

    See ya soon!

    Dan

     
  • At 9:23 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    That is such great news!!! You are such a strong and courageous girl - I know that you will continue to fight!

    God Speed!
    Monique in NY

     
  • At 9:37 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, hang in there! Sounds like yo u have a spunky spirit to beat any odds!

    Brenda and crew, I'm thinking of you. Hang in there!

    Vicki

     
  • At 9:37 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Good morning Amanda. Today is a brand new day. I pray that you continue to get better and stronger with each new day. I know you will - you have done wonders so far. Keep it up.

    Love,
    Judy and Kelly

     
  • At 9:44 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy, Keep up the overbreathing it keep everyone on there toes. Keep those numbers great as well. I missed the trick or treaters also 2 plus hours late flight from Cabo. Rain here was real bad they told us.

    Kevin

     
  • At 9:58 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mandy, Sorry i haven't been able to get there yet. You and I where on opposite ends of the world all most. And I have to make sure you know about the great folks Jerry and Diane are for giving up there home and letting Kurt stay as close to you as possable. And to his Parents for all the help as well.

    Kevin

     
  • At 10:02 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hey Kurt and Amanda,

    Martha told us about you when this happened. She came over to our house in tears. She needs you to get better. And it does sound like a TON of people need you, too. We have been worrying about you ever since. Kurt, Ron, and Mandy's mom, our hearts have been heavy for you. Know that we are thinking of you guys constantly and lifting you up to God in our prayers- beseeching Him to heal Mandy. We are hoping that He will make Mandy a powerful testimony for Him.

    I told our sweet little sewing class at Wylie Bible Church last Friday (they are girls and moms of the congregation) and they prayed for you. They continue to ask how you are doing and are keeping you in their prayers. The church is praying for you as well. We hope and pray that you will make good progress this month and it will truly be a powerful time of thanksgiving to Him for bringing you back to Kurt, Ron, your mom and all of your family and friends.

    Thank you for this website!!!

    We, too, have become Amanda junkies and constantly check the website. We breathed a collective sigh when we read the good report last night and thanked the Lord.

    If there is anything we can do for you, let us know.

    Love,
    Evelyn,Lyle,Steven,Sophie,and Christopher Yarnell

     
  • At 10:14 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Is it possible to wear out the Refresh button on the computer? If so, mine must be about gone. :)

    Have a good day, Amanda. Still thinging aobut you. (let me post and hit refresh again to see what I've missed)

    Judy

     
  • At 10:15 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hip Hop Hooray! I knew she could do it! I know it's still a long road ahead, but what great joy to read this update!

    Come on Amanda, we're all pulling for you girlie! We love you and we want you well.

    My sentiments with Sheri. Thank you to whom ever is posting these updates. We all appreciate you taking the time to keep us all informed.

    God bless you all!
    Gloria

     
  • At 10:33 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Never Give Up, Never Surrender!

     
  • At 10:33 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda,

    We miss you so much here at the office. You always know how to make us laugh and smile. Between your monkeys and that darn fake snake that keeps popping up over and over again. I do not know how we get any work done around here when you are here. he he he. so hurry up and come back, I am tired of working all day!!!

    Please know that you have everyone here praying for you and your family. Come home soon...

    Love you,

    JD

     
  • At 10:45 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Amanda, Kurt, family & friends,
    We're riding this roller coaster with you. We're staying on this ride and praying all the way!!

    God is watching out for you little Amanda. He loves you and so do we!!

    Barb

     
  • At 10:52 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    BB just wanted to let you know that I am thinking and praying for Amanda, her family and you!

    God Bless all!

    RwpmrZ (from the Shack(finger's site)

     
  • At 10:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    WOW, I feel like I know you just by reading all of these wonderful stories & comments even though we've never met. The kleenex one cracks me up. I too am addicted to the blog to read about your continued progress. Keep it up! I think God has given all of us his direct line to send the prayers to Him. They sure do seem to be getting answered quickly.
    Keep up the good work. Continued prayers sent your way.
    Kristine Rouse
    (Shannon's friend)
    Denver, Colorado

     
  • At 11:14 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Wo-Hoo Amanda!

    Thank you so much for keeping us posted on her condition. I have not met Amanda but I feel like I have known her for years now! She is on my mind in my prayers. I am checking her blog constantly. Please let her know I am pulling for her.

    Ashley

     
  • At 1:28 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Keep up the good fight! We're dealing with a 5 ft. package of dynamite here, so I'm going to bet on the princess all the way. I was unaware that this had happened until October 29th, and asked that this blog site be forwarded to me today. My thoughts and prayers are with you and if there is ANYTHING I can do on this end re. cat care, etc., please let me know.
    Even though we haven't been able to get together for awhile, I do miss you and love you, and I'm going to drag my whole family into a prayer-athon. I truly believe positive energy can help.
    Love, Teresa

     

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